Obituary: Joseph B. Coleman, 93

by | Mar 13, 2023

Joseph B. Coleman of Ashland, N.H., died on March 6, his wife Sandra, at his side. Mr. Coleman was born September 10, 1928, in Providence. He was the son of the late Dr. George V. Coleman and Anna (Burns) Coleman. He attended La Salle Academy in Providence, St. Mary University in Baltimore, Md. After obtaining his degree at St. Mary’s, he spent the next four years at St. Mary’s School of Theology, also in Baltimore. He was ordained a Roman Catholic priest on June 4, 1955. As a priest he had a great reverence for God’s presence in the Eucharist and it carried over to seeing God’s presence in every human being. He was assigned to Our Lady of Mercy in East Greenwich from 1955 to 1962; Holy Name in Providence from 1962 to 1969; chaplain to the students at Rhode Island School of Design from 1962 to 1969; and St. Augustin in Newport from 1969 to 1974. In 1975, he was appointed pastor to St. Mark’s in Jamestown. In 1984, Mr. Coleman left the priesthood to marry Sandra Carlson. At that time he said, “I love the priesthood, I love the Church. I have struggled to be a good priest for the last 29 years. I wasn’t always successful. I could not always live up to the high standards the Church demands of her priests.  For me, it was a daily struggle. When I married Sandra, the struggle was ‘over.’”

During his priesthood, however, he received many civic awards for his devotion to God’s people. In 1962, the East Greenwich Jr. Chamber of Commerce chose him as “Man of the Year” for “outstanding community service through loyal and unselfish efforts resulting in lasting contributions to community and nation.” On March 27, 1966, he received the Andrew Carnegie Medal for heroism for rescuing two young parishioners from a disturbed gunman. In 1974, the Newport City Council cited Mr. Coleman for his service to the community. In 1978, the Rhode Island House of Representatives recognized his courage and selflessness in saving more than a dozen lives on the Newport Bridge. Mr. Coleman was often called to the Newport Bridge to deter desperate people from jumping to their death. In the case cited in its award, Mr. Coleman climbed the cable 400 feet above Narragansett Bay to lead a woman to safety. In 1980, the Jamestown Town Council in celebration of his 25th anniversary as a priest, declared June 28th, 1980, as Father Joseph B. Coleman Day and further stated, “He made all of Jamestown his parish.”

In 1982, the American Legion of Rhode Island nominated Mr. Coleman with Rev. Charles Cloughlin of St. Mathew’s Episcopal Church, and Dr. William Litterick of the Central Baptist Church, all in Jamestown, to the Legion of Honor in the “Chapel of Four Chaplains” in Philadelphia, Pa. The citation stated, “The honor was in recognition of the service to all people, regardless of race or faith.” Their membership “symbolizes for all Americans and for all time, the unity of this nations, founded upon the Fatherhood of one God.”

Mr. Coleman had great admiration and respect for first responders. He volunteered as chaplain to various police and fire departments in the communities in which he served. Before 9/11, the contribution of police and fire departments was often not fully understood or appreciated by the general public. During the social unrest of the ’60s and ’70s, police were often called “pigs” and together with the firefighters were sometimes stoned as they performed their regular duties. Mr. Coleman in his talks and presence at crime and fire scenes gave support to these men and women. He was particularly interested in professionalizing the role of chaplain. In 1974, Mr. Coleman as one of the founders and first vice president of the International Conference of Police Chaplains. An organization formed to recruit and educate chaplains to serve the specific and unique needs of the individual police officer. This organization has, today, over 2,000 members in 17 countries. 

Mr. Coleman served as fire chaplain in East Greenwich and Newport and police chaplain in Providence, Newport, Middletown, and Jamestown. He was deeply involved in the lives of the men and women in these departments. The same compassion and sympathy he displayed for the desperate people contemplating suicide on the Jamestown and Newport bridges, was also evident in his police work. In two separate incidents he successfully persuaded an officer “not to eat the gun.” The officers of various departments trusted him.  The F.O.P. Lodge #3 in Providence chose him on two separate occasions to be their arbitrator in labor disputes with the City of Providence. They were more than satisfied with his efforts.

After 1984, when he left the active ministry, Mr. Coleman worked for several social agencies.  They included Newport County Mental Health, D.C.Y.F. in Rhode Island and D.C.F. in New Hampshire and Grafton County Senior Citizens Council in New Hampshire.  He said, “At my ordination, the ritual proclaimed that I was a priest FOREVER according to the order of Melchizedek. I never forgot that. I succeeded. Judgment Day will tell.” A veteran social worker at D.C.Y.F. did say however, “Joe Coleman was the most compassionate C.P.I [child protective investigator] I have ever worked with.”

Mr. Coleman is survived by his beloved wife, Sandra, and three nephews and five nieces. He was predeceased by his sisters, Margaret and Constance, and a brother, George.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in the Holy Trinity Parish, St. Mathew Catholic Church, 11 School St., in Plymouth, N.H., at 11 a.m. on Friday, April 14. Friends may call at the church from 10 to 11 a.m. prior to the service. Burial will be in the New Hampshire Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen, N.H., at 3 p.m. on Friday, April 14. Dupuis Funeral Home in Ashland is handling the arrangements. For more information go to Dupuisfuneralhome.com.

Rest in peace, Father Coleman

Read more about Fr. Joe’s time in East Greenwich HERE.

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Steven Gomes
Steven Gomes
March 14, 2023 6:54 am

He was the greatest. Treated us children at Holy Name with great care he was a fun priest
Will never forget him
Holy Name alumni ‘69

Paul Murray
Paul Murray
March 15, 2023 6:37 am
Reply to  Steven Gomes

Father Joe was there for us always at Holy Name but especially at time of need! He was my personal rock at the time of my brother’s unfortunate death by drowning at Middletown beach! God bless you, Fr. Joe. Rest in Peace!!!

Jean
Jean
March 14, 2023 7:29 am

Father Coleman was the best priest at St. Marks in Jamestown. He encouraged me to be an alter girl. I was the first alter girl in the parish. I’ve never forgotten about him, Rest In Peace father Joe.

Charles Leo Hanrahan
Charles Leo Hanrahan
March 23, 2023 11:21 am
Reply to  Jean

Fr Joe was truly a great guy. I was a youngster in East Greenwich, at the old hutch on Main St, he inspired lasting memories. One of the good guys.

Donaldwesson
Donaldwesson
March 14, 2023 9:59 am

Father Coleman was a wonderful priest,always helping kids with CCD classes using his car for what ever u needed.wonderful story about him,thankyou.RIP

Leah Hooks
Leah Hooks
March 14, 2023 10:05 am

May Fr. Coleman rest in peace as you exemplified the true meaning of a good soldier of Christ. You were the best! I will always remember you as a little girl at Holy Name Church. I am so glad you got to live your life to the fullest until your death as it should be.
Holy Name Alumni 69′

Paula Shea Tibbitts
Paula Shea Tibbitts
March 17, 2023 10:04 am

OLM was a better place having Father Joe serve there. Peace to you.

Cynthia Levesque
Cynthia Levesque
March 20, 2023 6:36 pm

Father Coleman was a truly wonderful and compassionate priest. He provided my family with support during the sudden death of my mother. I came back to the church because of him and his Christian example. He is in heaven now and we are happy to learn that he lived a long and worthwhile life. There will never be another like him. Cynthia and Paul levesque, Jamestown, R.I.

J. Clement 'Bud' Cicilline
J. Clement 'Bud' Cicilline
March 21, 2023 5:08 pm

Like so many others, I was deeply saddened to learn of the death of Joe Coleman. I first knew Father Joe as a priest at St. Augustin’s Church in Newport and later as Pastor of St. Mark’s Church in Jamestown. He had a long history of working with police departments so he was keenly aware of when people were in crisis. I am a retired clinical psychologist and former CEO of the Newport County Community Mental Health Center. We collaborated many times on the Newport Bridge where individuals in distress had decided that life was not worth living. It was a little risky – we didn’t have harnesses or safety equipment. But, Joe was so sincere and assuring in these situations as well as in other circumstances which comes as no surprise to anyone who knew him. He wore compassion and concern on his sleeve. He genuinely cared about others and that came across immediately so he was entrusted with their deepest dilemmas or issues. At some point after he left the priesthood, he became employed as a Case Manager at NCCHC, so we worked closer together. Still later, he took one of the toughest jobs in the state as a Caseworker for the Department of Chilldren, Youth & Families where he would provide counseling and support to those who were challenged with a wide range of problems. I had heard he had moved to New Hampshire, but I didn’t know where until I got a letter from him ‘extolling my virtues.’ I quickly wrote back to tell him how much that he had helped so many people. I don’t think he realized how good a person he was and what an impact he had on others – clients and colleagues and friends. I feel that my life has been deeply enriched by my friendship with Joe. I am keeping him in my daily prayers.
J. Clement ‘Bud’ Cicilline
Newport

John Kolb
John Kolb
March 31, 2023 5:44 pm

Wow, I just finished reading all the wonderful remarks above!!! I only knew him as a parish priest and special person. He was great working with the kids at Holy Name. He was the kid’s priest but would turn hero rescuing people in need through out his life. He led the parish CYO for many years. I will always remember he let me borrow his new station wagon in order to have enough space to drive three couples to a prom at La Salle Academy. He is a person, I will remember forever.

Joan M Chadwell
Joan M Chadwell
April 1, 2023 7:42 pm

RIP Father Joe. OLM/CCD and Father Joe. Thank you.
Joan (Larke) Chadwell

Donna Fish
Donna Fish
May 2, 2023 2:23 pm

Father Coleman was a friend and mentor to my father, and so many others, while they were youths growing up in EG. And like most who knew Joe, remained close friends throughout their lives. Father Coleman played a significant role in my wedding. It was such a beautiful day celebrating love and friendship. ❤️

CHARLES E KELLEY
CHARLES E KELLEY
February 12, 2024 10:45 pm

I knew Fr. Joe literally my whole life. I realized later in life that he was a hero, a true life hero. He is someone i will always remember with the highest admiration. His sister Connie and his mother were family to me. I grew up with Connie being the closest adult to me. We spent a lot of one-on-one time together. She was the most impactful person in my life and she was Joe’s closest confidant. I was fortunate to know Joe, his three siblings and his mother. They were all wonderful people. When I was a kid I didn’t realize how fortunate I was to spend time with this family.

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